Christine dated Jeff for many years. Though she loved him and was willing to end up as his wife, he never proposed to her. He never thought of getting married to any woman! "I was growing older and impatient," she lamented. Then, she devised a trick. "I got pregnant. Maybe I wouldn't have done it if my friend had not pushed me. She urged me to get pregnant because that could make him marry me. Was I shocked when he advised me to abort it? I thought my insistence on not having an abortion would work but he was so furious that he vowed never to marry me! In fact, he denied paternity because he believed he was protected. Despite the fact that he was responsible for his child's upkeep after I had him, Kelvin got married to someone else," Anne said.
"I thought Ken would continue begging me as usual when I threatened to walk out of our relationship," explained Kate, 29. But she was proved wrong. "The last time I told him I was going back to my old flame in Port-Harcourt, it was like good riddance to bad rubbish! He simply told me good-bye and dropped my call. I have not heard from him since and I understood he was seeing an old flame of his too. Sincerely, not that I went to another man, it was just a threat."
I still cannot explain why an intended partner could speak ill of a mother-in-law-to-be. Why talk carelessly about in-laws when you know your partner is listening? Again never make the mistake of talking ill of his mother/ siblings. Never make your partner feel less important before people. This is because naturally, every creature enjoys attention and making a man feel less important is like a balloon deflated with a pin! In addition, no partner should threaten an exit from the affair. Some ladies are fond of threatening to leave their boyfriends during quarrels that could be resolved later. Once he is accustomed to these threats, he could not take you to be a rolling stone which gathers no moss even when you are dead serious. Moreover, threats weakens a man's heart and on the other hand, he becomes daring of things he should naturally, have concealed from you.