Written by Funmi Akingbade
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Funmi Akingbade |
Hi husband, when actually was the last time you just laid back and kept your hands off your wife while letting her show you the way to pleasure her best? And you wife, when was the last time you lavishly abandoned yourself on the bed and tell your man to come and show you the stuff he is made of when it comes to sexual surprises?
Today, we are going to learn all about total abandonment that can make an ordinary wife whisper the 'unusual' and an ordinary husband ask for more from his wife. A really good starter script for letting the other take the lead during sex is simply to try and eat together. This is one explorative gateway so many couples ignore. It is true that the couple that eats together sleeps together. Eating together is like giving your partner a love potion, because a delicious meal can be a prelude to sex. The act of cooking together can be a form of foreplay, and the smell of food can ignite intimacy especially when couples eat some aphrodisiacs food items together.
Certain natural love potions otherwise known as edible aphrodisiacs, can reignite, spark, and turn up the heat in couples' sexuality by improving blood flow to the genitals, enhancing performance and pleasure and ultimately, put the couple in the mood for lovemaking.
Some couples have found out that fruits such as bananas, coffee, cucumbers and carrots, speak for themselves on that score.
Avocado is called "testicle trees." Then again, newlyweds are mostly encouraged to drink honey wine and water melon during the first month of marriage to improve their sexual stamina. That is why 'honeymoon' came from the word 'honey'.
Garlic is rich in antioxidants that protect against cell damage. Garlic is said to stir sexual desire and increase blood flow to the genitals.
Also, research has shown that the aroma of local popcorn induces blood flow to the penis, and the combination of cucumber and coconut make some women ready for sex.
Of course, if you want better sex, take care of your health! Being overweight may deflate your spouse's libido. Extra body fat raises the spectre of elevated blood glucose levels that can damage the blood vessels and nerves that allow for arousal and sexual pleasure. It also increases the risk of high blood pressure and clogged arteries.
Upon menopause, women lose 90 per cent of their circulating oestrogen, which may result in less blood flowing to the genitals and diminished capacity for arousal. Body fat offers some protection, because, like the woman's ovaries, it produces oestrogen.
Another trick that could do the magic in your sexual lives is sending some romantic and erotic text messages while at work or somewhere far away from home. Messages such as; 'I'm just thinking about you right now and I am not only full of some sexual surprises for you, I want to go down with you' or 'hurry back and come to where your heart is, I can't wait to have all of you inside me', can go a long way to make your spouse crave to have you. And while at home, when you are certain the coast is clear and the environment is favourable, start off sexual exploration by saying what you dream of and what you would love to take place between both of you. Tell each other what you are going to do to each other in a very low sexy seductive voice. Or you can subtly whisper, 'I love and enjoy passionate sex with you', 'come kiss me and undress me', 'the feel of your breast in my hands is the best erotic feeling I always have'. Many husbands are eagerly waiting to hear something hot and seductive like, 'I love the feel of this please don't stop', or 'Ooh, I need you inside me, you are always the best.' Then try describing your feelings and sensations, like, 'Mmm, you taste so good' or 'Ahhh… You feel so good pressed up against my body, are we repeating this soon?'
Researchers say words such as, 'come inside me', 'don't go, I want more of this', 'your rod satisfies me fully' and so on, turn husbands on faster than anything. Words are powerful, especially seductive and erotic sexy words. Try some tonight.